5 women share their best tips for getting laid
1.Get straight to the point
“You say, ‘Hey, wanna get out of here?’ And then they’ll be like, ‘yeah.’ It seems too simple, I know. I was convinced everyone was lying to me about this being an effective move until literally two nights ago. It’s scary because you’re wondering, what if they say no? But you just gotta go for it.”
2. Specify what you want on dating apps
“If you’re just looking for a friend with benefits or a one-night stand, try dating sites and specify that’s what you want. Otherwise, bars/clubs are your friend here. You don’t need to get drunk of even drink, trust your instincts and don’t go home with a creepy guy, but have fun.”
3. Meet up in public first
4. Go to a pub
“I’m not advocating being intoxicated as a means of picking people up, but bars can be really handy here. They’re pre-coded social spaces where meeting new people is ok and people expect to be approached. The trick is finding the right kind of bar for what you’re looking for: people tend to gravitate towards certain types of bars, so if you figure out what kind of person you’re looking for, picking the right bar can narrow down the selection, so to speak.”
5. Invite them over for evening coffee
“Inviting someone over to your place for coffee in the evening is a pretty solid way in my experience. Find someone you think is a good match physically, and just go for it. Talk a bit, and then take the leap. Inviting someone over is confident, but not scary confident. If they don’t want to be at your place, they will likely suggest somewhere else to ‘hang out’ or ‘get coffee.'” [via]
5. Invite them over for evening coffee
“Inviting someone over to your place for coffee in the evening is a pretty solid way in my experience. Find someone you think is a good match physically, and just go for it. Talk a bit, and then take the leap. Inviting someone over is confident, but not scary confident. If they don’t want to be at your place, they will likely suggest somewhere else to ‘hang out’ or ‘get coffee.'”
